How to Plan a Wedding That Feels Authentically You

Your wedding day is one of the most memorable moments of your life, and it should represent you—not what tradition or trends say it should look like. Whether you’re planning a small elopement in Devon, a relaxed countryside celebration in Somerset, or a beachside wedding along the South West coast, learning how to plan a wedding that feels authentically you can transform your day into something truly personal and meaningful.

Embrace What Matters Most to You

When planning your wedding, start by asking yourselves what’s genuinely important. Is it spending the day surrounded by your closest friends and family? Dancing barefoot in a barn? Sharing coffee and pastries instead of a formal sit-down meal? Forget what’s expected and focus on what feels right for you.

Many couples across Devon and Somerset are choosing intimate ceremonies and relaxed receptions that reflect their personalities—whether that’s at a rustic venue like Tawstock Court, a whimsical spot like The Lovely Yurt Camp, or a coastal venue near Torbay. The key is to create an atmosphere that feels comfortable and natural.

How to Plan a Wedding That Feels Authentically You By Choosing a Venue That Fits Your Vibe

The venue sets the tone for your entire day. If you’re a laid-back couple who loves the outdoors, consider locations like Cockington Country Park, Wells Town Hall with its charming Somerset backdrop, or countryside settings around Tiverton and Barnstaple.

Look for venues that let you personalise the space—whether that’s bringing your dog along, decorating with handmade touches, or planning an outdoor ceremony surrounded by nature. When you’re free to make the space your own, you’ll find it’s easier to create a wedding that feels authentically you.

Keep Traditions You Love—Skip the Ones You Don’t

There’s no rulebook when it comes to weddings. If you don’t want to cut a cake or toss a bouquet—don’t. Maybe you’d rather share a pizza together instead of a formal meal, or exchange vows privately before the ceremony.

The most memorable weddings are the ones that reflect genuine moments. Across the South West, more couples are saying goodbye to “shoulds” and hello to celebrations that simply feel like them.

Personalise the Details

It’s often the smallest touches that make the biggest difference. Add personality through:

• Custom playlists that include songs from your relationship

• A wedding colour palette inspired by your favourite places (think soft coastal blues, moody purples, or blush pinks)

• Personal vows written from the heart

• A photo display showing your journey as a couple

  
  

These authentic details tell your story—and they’re what your guests will remember most.

Work With Suppliers Who Get You

From your wedding photographer to your florist, choose suppliers who understand your style and priorities. As a Devon wedding photographer, I’ve seen how much smoother and more relaxed a wedding day feels when couples surround themselves with professionals who truly “get” them.

When your photographer captures your day in a natural, storytelling way—whether that’s on the beaches of Torquay, the gardens of Cockington, or the fields of Somerset—you’ll have genuine, emotional photos that reflect who you are.

Final Thoughts

At the end of the day, there’s no one-size-fits-all formula. Your wedding should be about the two of you—your love story, your laughter, and the little quirks that make your relationship special. Whether you’re celebrating in Devon, Somerset, or anywhere across the South West, remember that the best weddings aren’t the most traditional ones—they’re the most authentic.

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