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How to Feel Comfortable in Front of the Camera

  • Writer: Stephanie Toomey
    Stephanie Toomey
  • May 26
  • 3 min read

Feeling a bit nervous about being in front of the lens on your wedding day? You’re not alone—and as a Devon and Somerset wedding photographer, I can tell you that almost everyone feels that way at first. The good news? There are simple, practical ways to ease those nerves and learn how to feel comfortable in front of the camera so your true personality shines through in every photo.


Whether you’re tying the knot in Barnstaple, celebrating at Cockington, or planning a rustic yurt wedding in the Somerset countryside, these tips are designed to help you feel relaxed, confident, and (dare I say) even excited for your photos!

Bride and groom embracing on grassy field, veil flowing in breeze. Light-blue sky and hills in background, creating a serene atmosphere.

Pre-Wedding Shoots Are a Great Way to Learn How to Feel Comfortable in Front of the Camera


One of the easiest ways to shake off the nerves is by booking a pre-wedding shoot, also known as an engagement session. These are a brilliant opportunity to connect with your photographer and practice being in front of the camera before your big day.

Whether we’re walking the coastal paths in Torbay or exploring scenic spots in Wells or Tiverton, the goal is to make it feel more like a fun outing than a formal photo shoot. You’ll get a feel for how I direct and guide you (very naturally!) and you’ll see just how relaxed and easy-going the experience can be.


Natural Posing Tips for Wedding Photography


You don’t need to be a model or know your best angles—promise! A big part of how to feel comfortable in front of the camera is knowing that your photographer will gently guide you into flattering, natural poses that suit you as a couple.


Here are a few quick tips I often share during weddings in Exeter, Taunton, and the surrounding South West:


  • Keep moving – walking, spinning, or just swaying together keeps things natural.

  • Think connection – snuggle close, hold hands, or whisper something funny.

  • Relax your hands – don’t let them hang awkwardly. Hold your bouquet, your partner’s hand, or gently touch your dress/jacket.

  • Look at each other, not the camera – that connection between you tells the real story!


With gentle guidance and a relaxed atmosphere, posing won’t feel awkward or stiff.


Relaxed Wedding Photography in Devon & Somerset


I approach every wedding with a fun, relaxed style, which really helps couples learn how to feel comfortable in front of the camera. My job is to help you feel like yourselves and capture those real, joyful moments—not to turn your day into a photoshoot.


From laid-back celebrations at Tawstock Court to coastal weddings in South Devon, my priority is to blend in, have fun with you both, and gently direct when needed (while also letting you be in the moment).


This relaxed approach works wonders—especially for couples who are a bit camera shy. You’ll be surprised how quickly you forget the camera’s even there!


Final Thoughts on How to Feel Comfortable in Front of the Camera


Whether you're planning a wedding in Somerset, Devon, or anywhere across the South West, knowing how to feel comfortable in front of the camera makes all the difference. With the right photographer, a relaxed pre-wedding shoot, and some simple posing guidance, your nerves will melt away—and your photos will reflect the love, fun, and emotion of the day.


If you’re looking for a relaxed, fun wedding photographer who covers Exeter, Torbay, Barnstaple, Tiverton, and beyond, I’d love to chat and help you feel totally at ease every step of the way.


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