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What Is It Like to Work With Me? A Relaxed, Candid Wedding Photographer in Devon and Somerset

  • Writer: Stephanie Toomey
    Stephanie Toomey
  • Aug 24
  • 8 min read
Girl in floral dress stands smiling in a vibrant tulip field under a cloudy sky. The background shows trees and distant hills.

Photoomey Photography provides natural, candid and documentary style wedding photography throughout Devon and Somerset, with a fun, relaxed and unobtrusive approach for couples who want to enjoy their wedding without feeling like they're spending the whole day posing for photographs.


Hey, I'm Steph, the photographer behind Photoomey Photography!


My photography is all about capturing the real stuff. The laughter, little glances, happy tears, joyful chaos, people you love and quiet moments happening in between everything else.


Inspired by my grandad's love of storytelling through photographs, I've built my approach around connection, calm energy and allowing people to be themselves in front of the camera.


I want you to look back at your photographs and remember not only what your wedding looked like, but exactly how it felt.


What does relaxed, candid and documentary wedding photography actually mean?


You'll see words like natural, candid and documentary wedding photography used a lot, but what does that actually mean when it's your wedding?


For me, documentary wedding photography means watching, anticipating and capturing the moments happening naturally around me rather than constantly creating moments for the camera.


I'm looking for your partner's reaction as you walk down the aisle, your nan watching you from across the room, your friends laughing during the speeches, children causing chaos, hugs between family members, happy tears and everything happening around you that you might not even notice yourself.


Candid photography means those moments aren't being recreated or staged for a photograph. They're real.


And relaxed means I'm not spending your wedding constantly interrupting you, barking instructions or turning your day into one long photoshoot.


Your wedding is a wedding first. I'm there to document it.


What is it actually like having me around on your wedding day?


My personality is friendly, calm and approachable, and that's exactly the energy I bring to weddings.


For most of the day, I'll blend in with you and your guests and photograph everything as it naturally unfolds. I'll chat with people, have a laugh with you and keep things relaxed while always keeping an eye on what's happening around me.


I don't want you worrying about the camera or wondering what I'm doing.


I want you concentrating on getting married, spending time with the people you love and having an amazing day.


Meanwhile, I'm looking for all those moments you'll want to remember afterwards.


Documentary photography doesn't mean zero direction


One misconception about documentary wedding photography is that your photographer will never give you any help or direction.


That's not how I work.


My approach is documentary led, which means the majority of your wedding is photographed naturally as it happens. But when you need me, I'll step in.


I'll help organise your family group photographs. I'll keep an eye on your photography timeline. I'll offer advice when something isn't quite working. And during your couple portraits, I'll give you gentle direction so you're not left standing in front of me wondering what you're supposed to do.


I don't expect you to know how to pose. Instead, I might ask you to walk together, chat, hold hands, look at each other or give you a little prompt that gets you interacting naturally.


Then I'll photograph what happens. The important difference is that I'm guiding rather than heavily posing!


And if you want even less direction, that's absolutely fine too. Your photography should fit you!


"We were almost dreading that part of our wedding"


Charlotte and Ethan's wedding at Harefield Barn in Devon is probably one of the best real examples of what my relaxed approach looks like in practice.


When Charlotte and Ethan first enquired with me, they were actually considering whether they wanted a wedding photographer at all.

They told me:

"We're both not particularly comfortable in front of the camera, so your approach sounds good!"

After exchanging a few emails about their wedding, what they were looking for and how I photograph a wedding day, we arranged a Zoom call before they booked.


It gave them the chance to talk through all their worries and questions, and it gave me the chance to explain exactly how I work in much more detail.


One of the biggest things I wanted them to know was that their wedding photography didn't have to look like everybody else's.


If they genuinely hated having photographs taken and didn't want couple portraits or group photographs, that was okay.


I could take a completely stepped back approach, provide very little direction and simply document their wedding as it naturally happened.


I might be slightly biased, but I think wedding photographs are incredibly important.


They're one of the few things you'll have after the day that can take you back to the people, emotions and moments that were there. But I also don't believe you should spend your wedding feeling uncomfortable just to get them!


Trying it out before the wedding


Charlotte and Ethan decided to try a pre wedding shoot. So we arranged a pre wedding shoot at Haldon Forest!

Charlotte and Ethan embracing each other during their pre wedding shoot at Haldon Forest in Devon

This wasn't about teaching them complicated poses or practising for a photoshoot.


It was about showing them what being photographed by me actually felt like.


We walked through the forest, chatted a lot and kept everything really relaxed. Talking while we walked gave them something else to concentrate on rather than constantly thinking about the camera.


I gave them some gentle direction when they needed it and photographed the interactions that came naturally from there.



And something changed. They liked their pre wedding photographs.


More importantly, they realised that having their photographs taken didn't have to feel as uncomfortable as they'd imagined.


Instead of dreading the photography, they were now looking forward to it.



By the time their wedding at Harefield Barn arrived, everything felt completely different.


They knew me. They knew how I worked. They knew what it felt like to be in front of my camera. And I knew them.


The whole experience felt incredibly relaxed and fun, almost like turning up to photograph the wedding of friends rather than two people I'd only met through a wedding enquiry.


That trust meant they could concentrate on enjoying their wedding while I concentrated on documenting it.


There were still relaxed couple portraits and photographs where I offered some gentle guidance, but there was also plenty of time where I simply stepped back and captured everything happening around them.


And, of course, their dog was part of the day too!


Charlotte and Ethan laughing during their relaxed couple portraits at Harefield Barn in Devon

After receiving their photographs, Charlotte and Ethan left me this Google review:

"We usually hate photographs of ourselves and having them taken, and were almost dreading that part of our wedding. Steph really made us feel at ease for our pre wedding photoshoot and at our wedding! She also somehow managed to make our barking dog look calm in a lot of the photos and sent us the goofy ones too, which we love. Steph's skill and expertise really shows in the photos too. We're really happy with the end results."

Charlotte & Ethan, Harefield Barn


For me, that review sums up exactly what I want the experience of working with Photoomey Photography to be.


You don't have to suddenly love having your photograph taken.


You just need to feel comfortable enough that you can stop worrying about it and enjoy your wedding.



My approach to photographing a wedding is natural, but that doesn't mean the finished photographs are dull or muted.


My editing style is bright, colourful and vibrant, while keeping your photographs natural and true to the atmosphere of your wedding.


I love colour.


The greens surrounding a countryside wedding, colourful flowers and confetti, blue skies, golden evening light, bright outfits and the atmosphere of a packed dance floor all deserve to feel alive in your gallery.


I don't want to completely change the colours that were actually there or make every wedding fit the same trend.


Your photographs should still feel like your wedding!


The documentary approach captures the story.


The colourful editing brings that story together into a gallery full of life and personality.


Relaxed wedding photography across Devon and Somerset


I'm a wedding photographer based in Devon and Somerset, and I photograph weddings throughout both counties as well as Bristol, the Cotswolds and the wider South West.


My relaxed documentary approach works across all kinds of celebrations.


I've photographed intimate registry office ceremonies, countryside barn weddings, manor houses, hotels, church weddings, outdoor ceremonies, coastal celebrations and full wedding days.


Whether you're planning a relaxed barn wedding in Devon, a countryside celebration in Somerset or something completely different, my approach isn't about forcing your wedding into a particular formula.


I'll adapt to you, your venue, your guests and the way your day naturally unfolds.


What if we're nervous about our wedding photographs too?


Tell me. Seriously.


You won't be the first couple to say you hate having your photograph taken, and you definitely won't be the last.


The more I know about what you're worried about, the more I can adapt the experience to you.


Maybe you'd benefit from a pre wedding shoot like Charlotte and Ethan. Maybe you want really minimal couple portraits. Maybe you'd like plenty of gentle guidance because you'd rather not think about what to do.


Or perhaps you want me to step right back and document almost everything without intervention.


We can talk about all of that before your wedding. There isn't one correct way to have your wedding photographed.


There is only the approach that makes you feel comfortable.


Relaxed and Candid Wedding Photography FAQs


What is documentary wedding photography?

Documentary wedding photography focuses on capturing genuine moments and emotions as they naturally happen rather than staging everything for the camera. My approach is documentary led, allowing me to tell the real story of your wedding while still offering gentle direction when you need it.


Do you give us direction during our wedding photographs?


Yes. Documentary photography doesn't mean I'll never give you any direction. During couple portraits I'll use gentle prompts to help you relax and interact naturally, and I'll also organise your group photographs and offer guidance whenever it's useful.


For the rest of your wedding, I'll generally step back and capture the moments happening naturally around me.


What if we hate having our photograph taken?


That's completely fine, and you're definitely not alone. Many of my couples tell me they're nervous or uncomfortable in front of a camera.


My approach is relaxed and informal, with gentle direction rather than stiff posing. We can also arrange a pre wedding shoot if you'd like to experience how I work before your wedding.


What is Photoomey Photography's wedding photography style?


Photoomey Photography specialises in natural, candid and documentary style wedding photography with a fun, relaxed and unobtrusive approach.


My finished photographs are bright, colourful and vibrant, with a focus on genuine emotions, real interactions and capturing your wedding just as it felt.


Where do you offer relaxed and candid wedding photography?


I'm a wedding photographer based in Devon and Somerset, photographing weddings throughout both counties as well as Bristol, the Cotswolds and the wider South West.


From relaxed countryside and barn weddings to coastal celebrations, manor houses, registry offices and intimate ceremonies, I adapt my documentary approach to each wedding rather than making every day look the same.


Looking for a relaxed, candid wedding photographer in Devon or Somerset?


If you're planning your wedding in Devon, Somerset or elsewhere in the South West and want natural, colourful photographs without your wedding feeling like a photoshoot, I'd love to hear about your plans.


Photoomey Photography is for couples who want to spend their wedding being present with the people they love, while trusting me to capture the laughter, emotion, chaos, little moments and everything happening in between.


You don't need to be good in front of a camera.


You don't need to know how to pose.


And you definitely don't need to spend hours away from your guests creating photographs.


Come and tell me about your wedding, what you're excited about and anything you're nervous about. We can have a chat and see whether my relaxed, candid and documentary approach feels right for you.





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