The Beauty of Handwritten Vows at Your Wedding
- Stephanie Toomey
- Sep 8
- 2 min read
Your wedding day is one of the most significant milestones of your life, so finding ways to make it truly personal is essential. One beautiful tradition that couples are embracing more and more is handwritten vows at your wedding.

Why Choose Handwritten Vows at Your Wedding?
When you take the time to put pen to paper, you’re not just writing words—
you’re capturing your love story. Handwritten vows at your wedding create a deeply personal moment that goes beyond the standard “I do.” Couples in Devon, Somerset, and the wider South West of England often say that this tradition helps them feel more present and connected during their ceremony.
The Emotional Connection

There’s something incredibly romantic about hearing words that your partner has written just for you. In places like Bristol, Taunton, Torbay, or Exeter, I’ve photographed weddings where handwritten vows brought tears, laughter, and heartfelt smiles to both couples and guests. They add an authentic, unscripted quality that truly makes your ceremony unforgettable.
A Keepsake for Years to Come
Unlike standard vows, handwritten ones can be kept forever—whether you frame them, tuck them into your wedding album, or place them inside a memory box. Many of my couples across Devon and Somerset have said it’s one of their most treasured mementos, alongside their wedding photographs.

How to Write Handwritten Vows
If you’re considering handwritten vows at your wedding, start by reflecting on your journey together. Mention the little moments—your first date in Bristol, beach walks in Torbay, or even your morning coffee ritual. These personal touches will make your vows unique to your story. Don’t worry about making them perfect; sincerity always shines brighter than fancy words.
Adding Handwritten Vows into Your Day
Whether you’re marrying at Crowcombe Court, Coombe Lodge, or a rustic barn in Somerset, handwritten vows fit seamlessly into any wedding style. They can be short and sweet, poetic, or even funny—it’s all about what feels right for you as a couple.
If you’re planning your big day in Devon, Somerset, or anywhere across the South West, I’d love to capture every heartfelt moment—including your handwritten vows at your wedding. Get in touch today to check my availability and let’s chat about how I can help tell your love story through timeless, vibrant photography.




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